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Create Memorable Holiday Moments
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The past six weeks have been like a whirlwind that keeps gathering speed.
First, we had a major snowstorm the last week of October that knocked out power for over a week. And before I could fully recoup from that, I found myself in the throes of preparing for Thanksgiving.
And, now Christmas is just a few days away!!!
Although, over the years I’ve found ways to cut down on all the hoopla of shopping, planning and cooking, I still sometimes find myself with more to do than I have energy or time for.
Have you ever felt like that?
Earlier I shared with you tips to make your holiday stress free. And, if you haven’t already gotten your audio of 30 Tips in 30 Minutes for Making Your Holidays Stress-Free, Budget-Friendly and Loaded with Remarkably Rewarding Memories, you can get it here: http://bit.ly/tjMMjV
Now, I want to share with you some of the things that work for me to ensure that I create memorable holiday moments even when I feel stressed and overwhelmed. Only you know what will work best for you and your lifestyle. So use what I know for sure as your guide to create your own unique rituals, plans and memorable moments for your holiday celebrations.
What I know for sure:
- The more you push yourself to do more and more, the less energy you will have to accomplish what’s important to you.
- Nothing is cast in stone and you can always revise, omit or change any plans you’ve made.
- Traditions, habits and rituals can be altered or recreated to best fit your present lifestyle and preferences.
- You are totally in control of what you choose to do and give.
Holidays ought to be joyful times filled with memorable moments. And, when what you’re doing stressful, you’re missing out on the true meaning of celebration.
Wishing you a joyful, memorable, stress free holiday!
Gladys Anderson, Life Coach, Therapist, Author
Gladys Anderson is a certified life coach, family therapist certified group coaching specialist and author of the forthcoming book, “Master the Genie Within: Uncover, Embrace and Celebrate the Real You”. Her competitive edge is empowering women in the helping professions to set boundaries, take charge of their lives and enjoy satisfying relationships and careers.
Holiday Traditions, Rituals and Habits
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Holiday Traditions, rituals and habits are staples of our American culture. But just because your mom or grandmother always did things a certain way doesn’t mean you have to unless you really want to.
In my family, our holiday traditions are wide ranging. Pumpkin pie at Thanksgiving is as traditional as it gets but we’re not exactly the “pumpkin pie” kind of family. We might have the traditional turkey at Thanksgiving or we might have something non traditional like lobster for dinner depending on our mood. We might open our presents or Christmas Eve or Christmas Day. We might invite guests for a sit down dinner or host an open house during the holidays. Maybe, your holiday traditions in your family include y volunteering to serve food at a homeless shelter.
Just because your mother or grandmother always made a roast for the holiday dinner, you don’t have to carry on that tradition unless it’s something you enjoy doing and want to do it.
What traditions do you plan to include or create for your holiday celebrations?
Give yourself permission to create whatever memories are meaningful for you and your family.
You may even decide to skip the cooking, planning, shopping and cleaning altogether and spend the holidays somewhere you and your family can be pampered so you can concentrate on enjoying quality time together.
Whatever traditions, rituals or habits you engage in, make sure you include some down time, fun and relaxation in your holiday plans.
And to get some stress busting, sanity-saving tips to make your holidays more enjoyable, click here to get your copy of “30 Tips in 30 Minutes for Making Your Holidays Stress-Free, Budget-Friendly and Loaded with Remarkably Rewarding Memories.”
Enjoy Your Holidays!!!
Gladys Anderson, Life Coach, Therapist, Author
Gladys Anderson is a certified life coach, family therapist certified group coaching specialist and author of the forthcoming book, “Master the Genie Within: Uncover, Embrace and Celebrate the Real You”. Her competitive edge is empowering women in the helping professions to set boundaries, take charge of their lives and enjoy satisfying relationships and careers.
Holiday Gift Giving Tips
Posted by: | CommentsMost of us are feeling some of the effects of downed economy. However, that doesn’t mean you have to bust the budget to give gifts to those you care about.
After my colleague, Dr. Flora Brown and I finished creating an audio where we share some useful and practical holiday gift-giving, budget friendly tips, I remembered some other tips to share with you.
If you haven’t already picked up you free gift – “30 Tips in 30 Minutes for Making Your Holidays Stress Free, Budget-Friendly and Loaded with Remarkable Memories”, click here to get your free audio download now!
Most of the ideas here are less than twenty dollars and can be ordered on line or purchased locally. They are equally appropriate for both men and women. In the last few years, I’ve found that ordering online from reputable companies saves me from “mall madness” and keeps a few extra dollars in my pocket.
Consider some of these gift-giving tips when you are planning your holiday shopping:
- Travel pillows – Whether traveling by plane, car or train, a travel pillow to support your neck while resting is a welcome relief.
- Journals – A journal is a great way to record your thoughts, feelings, ideas and inspirations. I have several journals and if someone you know journals, I’m sure the would appreciate a decorative or themed one.
- Bookmarks – For the readers of physical books on your list, one or two attractive bookmarks can brighten their day and remind them that you were thinking of them.
- USB flash drives – Most of your tech savvy friends and family members can appreciate a flash drive to store their photos, music or files. I carry a blank one around in my purse – just in case I need it. They take up hardly any space and you never know when one may come in handy for copying and transferring files.
- Personalized aprons or cookbooks – The cooks in your life will appreciate the thoughtful remembrance.
- E-reader covers – A lot of people have e-readers and an e-cover is an inexpensive way to acknowledge their love of reading.
- Personalized picture frames – Take candid photos of you and your friends/family as a remembrance of a special occasion you shared and give the photo to them as a holiday gift.
- Handmade gifts – If you bake, a tin of homemade cookies or other goodies may fill the bill.
Here are some online resources where you can browse for even more gift-giving tips:
http://personalizationmall.com
Like most people, I am all about reducing stress, saving time, money and energy. Shopping inexpensively on line is a great way to preserve your sanity amidst all the rushing and stress of the holiday season.
And, please share with us your budget friendly gift giving tips in the comment section.
Gladys Anderson - Life Coach, Therapist, Author
Gladys Anderson is a certified life coach, family therapist, certified group coaching specialist and author of the forthcoming book, “Master the Genie Within: Uncover, Embrace and Celebrate the Real You”. Her competitive edge is empowering women in the helping professions to set boundaries, take charge of their lives and enjoy satisfying relationships and careers.